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Heather Gray
A Message to White America: "It's Time We Woke Up"
Producer "Just Peace" WRFG-Atlanta 89.3 FM
(404) 523-3471/hgray20299@aol.com
I am of European descent and, while I prefer to be called European
American, given the American practice of classifying people by their
race, I need to state unequivocally that I am "white". And it
is of this "whiteness", it's repercussions and
responsibilities that I write.
All of my adult life I have been a political activist. For more than
30 years I have participated in virtually all the major movements for
justice in this country encompassing civil rights, anti-war,
anti-apartheid, anti-nuclear, anti-corporate, anti-death penalty, on and
on. Throughout this vast experience invariably racism and class
oppression raise their ugly heads. For me, however, the most compelling
and disturbing of these is racism and its companion white supremacy. The
brilliant and profound scholar W.E.B Dubois warned us that the issue of
race would define the 20th century which indeed it has. And because
America has been so lax in adequately addressing this disease of racism
and all it's augmented problems, race will likely define the 21st
century as well.
Racism in America is of epidemic proportions and whoever denies this
must be a fool or blind. It surrounds us in our economic strata, in our
prison system, in our schools, in our political infrastructures, in our
foreign policy, in our health system, in our housing, in our banking to
name only a few! It is not a problem only in white conservative circles
where most activists would expect it to be lodged, but in the so-called
liberal and progressive circles as well. All will attempt to state
otherwise. Conservatives might claim some of their best friends are
Black. Liberals might state that they are working for changes of some
policies which will "make life better for Blacks".
Progressives in various organizations might say that they are working
under the leadership of Blacks so they must be doing something right.
None of this is ever enough and it is literally and figuratively
"white wash". It is true that historically there have always
been whites who have taken a stand against racism but the numbers have
been far too limited given the enormity of the problem. This has
frustrated me to the point that a few years ago I wrote a lengthy poem
entitled "Being White and Angry" in which I delineated what
some have described as an epistle of "white" ancestral and
present day immoral, disgraceful and tragic exploits from slavery to the
Gulf War.
The dreadful realities of racism and white supremacy have always
teetered on the walls of decay because the foundation is built on lies
and deception. No one has gained from racism despite claims to the
contrary. If anything, we as whites have diminished our souls through
racist practices and any economic gains are tainted - I refer to such
gains as blood money.
We as whites will rarely claim responsibility for our creation of
racism and white supremacy (they are ours after all) in spite of the
fact that we demand recognition for virtually all other inventions -
when it suits us and when we can benefit from it we'll claim it! It has
been said that often the most important things in life are not discussed
or written about and whites are definitely selective on not speaking out
on the above issues. Could this suggest the importance of the issue to
whites? I think so because it requires us to look deep into our souls
and admit we are and always have been wrong about our entrenched present
and past racism. This is seemingly an impossible task for most whites.
Most of us have a shell that's almost impenetrable. While everyone else
rails against us whites for our racist attitudes and policies we are
largely and despicably silent on the issue. Why are we like this? Do
many of us who are white want to maintain the present racist system?
Yes, beyond doubt! While rarely are we now wearing sheets over our
heads, we are instead sitting in board rooms where we implement racist
policies. But in today's climate it is not appropriate to state without
reserve that we are racist. Instead everyone skirts around the issue.
This false impression by other whites drives me nuts. Are some of us
nervous about reactions from other whites if we take up the call against
racism? For some, this is likely true. Are we ignorant of racism? No,
but nevertheless it seems the majority of whites claim ignorance. Are we
apathetic? Yes. Do some of us feel guilt? Probably. Would we prefer to
pass the buck? Always. Strangely, we prefer to blame those who are the
victims of our prevailing racism as if they were architects of their own
victimization and not us. The insanity and hypocrisy of this is mind
boggling.
Throughout the years, whenever I've attended panels or conferences on
racism organized by whites, invariably Blacks will be invited to
participate. This is important because we as whites always need to be
educated about the devastating impact of our actions and attitudes. But
where, I've always asked, are the masses of whites who need to take up
the mantle with other whites on this issue. Why are we, in vast numbers,
not also on those panels and in the streets demanding change. Indeed, it
is this lack of attention to racism on the part of whites with other
whites that, in my opinion, has always been the missing equation in
addressing the morass of the tragic effects of racism and white
supremacy. The problem of racism rests with those of us who are white -
we are the racists, we are the architects of this dreadful disease, we
are the supremacists, and, guided by our Black sisters and brothers, we
need to begin being accountable, speaking out and taking action. We need
to plant the seed and let it grow deliberately and
exponentially....individual to individual, community to community, city
to city, nation to nation.
A few weeks ago while having dinner with a Black friend the
discussion veered toward an update of racism in America. Citing the
diminishing of affirmative action programs across the country and other
telling signs, he said "I think white America is getting tired of
everything being blamed on racism." I said "So what! White
America needs to be badgered every minute of every day about our racist
attitudes and actions." In fact, I still rankle over the
"angry white male" contention in the early 90's stating that
because of policies to reverse the preeminent white access to virtually
all privileges in this country at the expense of everyone else, they
felt they were being discriminated against. The gall of white males
expressing anger over anything after hundreds of years of ancestral
privilege astounds me...leaves me breathless. To be perfectly frank, I
remain an "angry white female" expressing indignation at
"angry white males" for this insult.
Upon reflection, I realized that my friend's comment was but an
ancient response from Blacks who try to appease whites to prevent
repercussions - a tragic defensive legacy of America's racist
paternalistic society. Upon further reflection, however, I realized that
whites react similarly with other whites. Invariably whites will attempt
to make other whites feel comfortable with their racism or will be
deplorably apathetic. We as whites need to stop this nonsense.
It is my hope that in the 21st century, America's white community
will finally come to its senses. Bill Clinton thankfully began this
dialogue with his Commission on Race. But this was just a start and we
know not to expect anything of integrity along this line from the Bush
administration. But in communities throughout the country we white
Americans can take a stand now, this very minute, and always should have
been acting on or own and with other whites and Blacks. We can first
educate ourselves about racism and address our own racist attitudes
which should start with the basic premise that if you are white and born
in America you are a racist. Don't think otherwise because it will not
be true. We can learn from Blacks and other whites how to get beyond our
racist background, how to be watchful of our own actions and attitudes
and change them. Secondly, never let other whites get away with their
racist attitudes and actions. Stop them immediately. Don't excuse them
or attempt to make them feel comfortable. Thirdly, study the history of
white and Black resistance to racism and injustice. This is not
something you will learn in public schools, which would view white
resistance, in particular, as traitorous to the racist American system.
After all, it is traitoress to the system as well it should be.
Fourthly, and most importantly, seek advice from Blacks on what we as
whites should do to adequately and aggressively address racist problems
in our communities, in the nation, in the world. Don't ever think for
one minute that we as whites have the answers because we don't.
Finally, after centuries of "white" deceit, be mindful that
pathetically we as whites still want to control everything and usually
think we know everything. We need to recognize that we should never
pursue any struggle against racism or for justice alone - or any other
struggle for that matter. With whites leading the way we have
experienced untold disasters for centuries. Forbid we should revisit
such devastating consequences and pain. Actually this is rather a
non-issue. Our deceit and lies are now out there for everyone to see, we
could never get away with leading the way even if we tried. Let's admit
our ignorance and false vacuous, hopeless pride. It's time we started to
learn and do something worthwhile. We are centuries too late, but now is
as good a time as any to start! |